22 Jul, 2023 | anishdr | No Comments
Is Your ADHD Child Defiant? 4 Possible Reasons Why
Defiance is a common challenge faced by parents and teachers of children with ADHD. However, defiance is often a symptom of a more significant problem for the child or their environment. Here are four possible reasons for defiance in children with ADHD:
1) Executive Functioning Differences
Children with ADHD often struggle with executive functions like focus, organization, and planning. When asked to perform tasks that require these skills, they may become overwhelmed and respond with defiance. Breaking down large tasks into smaller, more manageable ones can help reduce this defiance.
2) Learning Differences
Children with specific learning disorders, such as dyslexia, are often labeled as lazy or defiant. However, their defiance may stem from academic struggles and fear of judgment from their peers. Making accommodations in the classroom can help these children turn in work differently and reduce their fear of judgment.
3) Anxiety
Anxiety can lead to defiance in children with ADHD. When anxious, their body goes into fight or flight mode, and they may become defiant to avoid a situation causing them anxiety and panic. If your child becomes defiant, it’s important to check in and see what they might be avoiding.
4) Too Much Punishment/Not Enough Connection
Children with ADHD often receive higher correction rates than their peers. This high correction rate and negative feedback can make kids feel defensive and angry. Increasing positive time spent connecting with your kids and noticing/praising what they do well can help counteract this.
In conclusion, understanding the reasons behind your child’s defiance can help you address the root cause and provide appropriate support. Remember, defiance is often a symptom of a more significant problem, and addressing these underlying issues can lead to improvements in your child’s behavior.
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